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Title: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on October 07, 2025, 02:39:52 PM
Because we have a thread for things that are somewhat normal, today I felt the need to have one for things that seem not so normal.  Case in point:

Last week my doctor said he wanted me to make an appointment to get what he called a Heavy Metal test reading.  I immediately thought to myself that anybody in the Community would get a fairly high reading from this test.  In fact, the reading for Charger and Thel would probably be sky high.  But then the doctor explained to me that you receive an intravenous drip, then go home and save your urine for the next 6 hours, and then mail it off to a lab.  The lab then calculates the amount of heavy metals that have accumulated over the years in your tissues.

So I guess it wasn't what I was first thinking.  But because this whole experience still seemed a bit unusual, I feel it belongs in this new thread.   :)
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on October 08, 2025, 07:52:59 AM
A true Bill & Ted moment. :D

"You need a heavy metal test."

"Excellent!!!"

My abnormality stems from my mom putting my phone number down as a contact on her medical forms. She had a stay at a hospital a while ago and now I am getting frequent robo-calls from entities that assure me I'm getting Medicare parts A and B and therefore need their services. I answer them because I will get calls from numbers that I don't recognize and they turn out to be customers.

I used to just hang up, and they'd call again.

Then I tried an experiment - I'd hear out the call and then inform it that I don't have the Medicare and please take me out of their databases.

Once I started doing that, the calls had a sharp drop-off in their frequency. I spoke to no human person, but my statement seems to have impacted the course of telemarketing. Even if I'm just attaching a causality to the situation and other factors are in play, I still like to think I had a bit of a John Henry moment and got ahead of the machines.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on October 08, 2025, 08:12:42 AM
^^^^^^
Robo calls are one of the most annoying things in the modern day.  Although the great majority of spam calls I get are from real people trying to sell me something.  Thank goodness for caller ID, which gives me a way to ignore those calls.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on October 08, 2025, 10:22:13 AM
That's great, a heavy metal test! They should name the different tiers of results with band names of increasing metalness.

0-10, Air Supply

20-30, Journey

etc.

And yeah, spam calls are the bane of my existence. Between caller ID and Apple's new "Announce yourself" feature, I have it under control for now.


Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on October 08, 2025, 11:11:42 AM
We should actually have a Heavy Metal level counter here! :D

Hopefully those bad kind of heavy metals haven't replaced your good kinds of heavy metals there Typhon!


Telemarketers are a bitch...it's gotten so bad here that I have stopped answering unknown callers. I don't suffer fools anymore. If there's something important you can send me a message then and the few people that I know who call me are already saved on my phone...
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on October 11, 2025, 09:51:37 AM
This was somewhat abnormal..


I installed the new CCleaner Pro version and ran it through. All went well and it cleared my internet temp files and cache and cookies and what nots...

Well after doing that my Mozilla wouldn't allow me to login to anywhere anymore...including the Community...always said I have a problem with my cookies.

Only option left was to completely uninstall my Mozilla and reinstall...well that's when things got really annoying. As it seems that Mozilla does back up your bookmarks but NOT your saved passwords!
So now I need to manually re-login into everything! Thankfully I have all my passwords written down in three notebooks. But it takes time finding the correct ones...

Major annoyance! I still do not know what the CCleaner did (as I have done the same clean dozens of times before with the free software) now to so royally screw up my Mozilla...

I am afraid to reinstall the CCLeaner if it'll do the same again...however now I did create a mozilla account where it should (!!) back-up all my data including the passwords.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on October 11, 2025, 10:09:03 AM
^^^^^^
Sometimes the so-called cleaner software can do more harm than good.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on October 12, 2025, 12:43:28 PM
That can be true. Although in this case I am not 100% sure that was to blame though...as Firefox also updated itself so it is possible something went wrong with that....

Either way it is now mostly sorted...

What this prompted though was for me to go through all my passwords and copy them into a new notebook while discarding the non functioning old sites and what nots so it'll be easier to find the right ones...
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on October 13, 2025, 12:04:22 PM
Pretty sure CCleaner wiped the infos, those utilities can overreach here and miss things there because they simply can't keep up with all the apps, all the time. Human backup operations such as you've done are warranted and I'm glad you got back to where you need to be.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on October 14, 2025, 09:21:25 AM
It is possible indeed....and considering that it happened right after the Mozilla update it's quite possible that a change there made it happen.

But yeah I'm back to normal now, although it does seem that I had forgotten to put down the password of one internet casino I frequent...might have to reset my password on that one at some point.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on October 29, 2025, 08:35:09 AM
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/truck-monkeys-mississippi-tulane-missing-b2854099.html

Biomedical research monkeys on the loose in the Louisiana woodlands.

This is abnormal because that's something I would typically associate with Florida. :smug:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on October 29, 2025, 08:51:53 AM
Well one can only hope they are NOT already genetically altered killer mutant monkeys or Louisiana is gonna have one hell of a Halloween!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on November 26, 2025, 08:48:27 AM
Well I started doing some renovations again...

This time to the living room. Ripping out the old wallpaper and sanding the walls...well A wall for today. It is quite labour intensive trying to get the wallpaper out...and I've decided not even try to get it all out from the drywall...instead I'll paint over it with several coats...and if it leaves a little texture then so be it...it might even look kind of cool.

Took me about 3 hours to sand one 3 foot wide wall....

But the idea is to get all the walls sanded and painted (atleast with the primer) before christmas....We shall see.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on November 26, 2025, 12:13:03 PM
Ach! Wallpaper! The bane of my existence when I have to get it off a wall!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on November 27, 2025, 05:40:09 AM
Indeed...

Ofcourse it wouldn't be much of a problem if I'd know how to put on new wallpaper, but when you paint instead it does create quite the problem indeed...

Well another 2 foot wall for today...
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on November 27, 2025, 09:19:36 AM
Well no sanding for me today!

Got the Flu shot and my arm got bit sore so decided not to strain it more...

I wasn't planning on taking the shot but it was free so I thought why not...and atleast this is a well tested and well made!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on November 27, 2025, 09:46:16 AM
Current listening - Enter Sandman... :smug:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on November 27, 2025, 10:04:30 AM
:haha1:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on November 29, 2025, 06:57:55 AM
Well bit more sanding today...without listening to Enter Sandman I might add.

Can't get much done in a day....but I'm hoping I can finish all sanding next week...
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on November 29, 2025, 09:08:04 AM
I left behind broadcast teevee to go with cable in 1987.

I dropped cable for satellite in 1999.

Fed up with satellite costs, I went full streaming in 2021.

Yesterday, I set up a gadget on my PC that allows me to pick up broadcast teevee signals.

Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on November 29, 2025, 12:00:02 PM
Back in the 1980s, I got a 10 foot satellite dish when they first came out.  For years I could watch any channel out there for free.  Then they started to scramble many of the satellite feeds. 

I've always had antennas for broadcast television, still do.  Have never paid for cable TV or any television service of any kind in my life, and never will.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 09, 2025, 12:03:51 PM
I very rarely watch antenna tv anymore...I think about 95% of my tv and movie watching comes from my Streaming services now...I have SkyShowtime, HBO and occationally Disney and Amazon Prime.

SkyShowtime and HBO are at half price for life. Granted both have raised their monthly fee by more than a euro already so and with netflix now buying HBO I'm pretty sure I'll be saying buh bye to HBO!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: KiloDeltaCharlie on December 09, 2025, 12:34:06 PM
Netflix buying Warner Brothers isn't a done deal yet, there's a big chance it will be blocked.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 09, 2025, 12:43:01 PM
Oh yes...quite true... I do hope it'll be blocked. Can't stand anything Netflix does!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on December 10, 2025, 08:32:59 AM
Paramount launched a hostile big.  :drama:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 10, 2025, 09:10:52 AM
Well finally finished all the sanding....part from couple of spots where more filler is needed.

I'm hoping that tomorrow I can primer two walls...maybe even do two coats...depends on the time it takes to dry.

Days are running short though.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on December 11, 2025, 07:49:51 AM
Good news, after the 21st, they days get longer again!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 11, 2025, 08:54:26 AM
Indeed! :lol:


Well first two walls got their primer today. That was actually pretty easy. Two coats...seems okay...there are couple of spots that don't look perfect but neither do I so decided not to give two shits.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on December 11, 2025, 12:31:59 PM
^^^^^^
What will the top color be?

(https://external-content.duckduckgo.com/iu/?u=https%3A%2F%2Ftse2.mm.bing.net%2Fth%2Fid%2FOIP.VQqDxxPCS62zGs0JBHu7hQHaE8%3Fcb%3Ducfimg2%26pid%3DApi%26ucfimg%3D1&f=1&ipt=266abccbcc7de3188703a7c816317ba9e9be0f6a1e3a678b3b86f7b610e613f1)
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 11, 2025, 12:54:34 PM
Something in the yellowy gray range I believe...haven't decided yet. Will be going to the paint store tomorrow.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on December 11, 2025, 03:46:16 PM
Something in the yellowy gray range I believe...haven't decided yet. Will be going to the paint store tomorrow.
May I suggest Manchester Tan.  :banana:

That is the wall color of all the rooms in my home, except the master bedroom.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 11, 2025, 04:09:36 PM
I have my doubts they have that here! :D
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on December 12, 2025, 08:25:53 AM
I have my doubts they have that here! :D

Maybe it's Hämeenlinna Tan in Finland... ?
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 12, 2025, 08:32:39 AM
Hahah! Maybe!

I went with this one:

(https://tikkurila.fi/sites/default/files/styles/scale_crop_extra_large_800_800/public/pim/images/tikkurila_Y458_short_0.jpg.webp?h=e844b460&itok=CianPuzH)

Merino...like the wool I guess...

Maybe bit too light of a color but we'll see how it sits.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on December 12, 2025, 08:52:46 AM
^^^^^^
Actually, that looks a lot like mine.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 15, 2025, 08:54:47 AM
I have now painted the first coat of that.

It is bit lighter than the picture which is a bit of a shame, but need to see how it looks after two coats.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on December 15, 2025, 06:28:14 PM
For the last 5 days I have been sick with a fever and cough.  Today is the first day without the fever, so I can tell I am recovering.  Good thing because I had to make my way to the market to get food and supplies. 

I am rarely sick like this.  The thing I hate most about it is I can't do my regular activities that keep me fit, like, using my weight bench, or the tread mill, and any outside chores.  Frustrating.   :squint:

Almost finished with Ozzy's book, though.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 16, 2025, 10:36:29 AM
Sorry to hear that you've been sick buddy...but glad to hear you're on the mend.


Now to really abnormal goings on...

For some reason it seems some threads are getting locked here for no reason! So if you see a locked thread please notify so we can unlock it...not sure what the hell is going on...
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on December 16, 2025, 11:19:14 AM
^^^^^^
If that's not one of you mods locking the thread, then maybe a hacker.  >:(
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 17, 2025, 09:56:17 AM
We shall see if it keeps on happening...could just be a software bug.


Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 17, 2025, 11:46:30 AM
Talk about abnormal going ons...

F button from my keyboard just mysteriously stopped working...

So I opened the keyboard cleaned everything (and there was quite a lot of shit in there) and tried again...nope.

Then I cleaned everything again and tried with just the mat not the keys on...and everything worked...I was happy and screwed in all back together again and....nope F still did not work and now also 5 went awol...

So after some profound swearing I took everything apart again and cleaned it the third time...and tested with just the rubbers and nope...F and 5 were both still gone with the piggies...some more swearing ensued and I wiped the contacts once more and then miraculously the F and 5 returned from their adventures in the gone baby gone land...

I screwed everything back together again and now everything works...

Goddamn gremlins are everywhere now!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: KiloDeltaCharlie on December 17, 2025, 12:34:18 PM
Well, at least you didn't have to type that using words which didn't contain an F!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on December 18, 2025, 07:32:39 AM
Good thing you didn't have to contact the F5 company about any of your tech needs during that time!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 18, 2025, 08:39:28 AM
.aaaand it happened again today...

And this time it wasn't just the F and the 5 it was also O and 0...


So opened the keyboard up again and cleaned it again this time with electronic contact spray...seems to be working now..

What is the sucky part is that these Ergonomic keyboards aren't available much anymore...the design has changed...and since I've been using one for over 15 years I can not type with a regular keyboard anymore...I did find a new model of the Microsoft Ergonomic keyboard but even that is bit different, but I did order one just in case...because cleaning my keyboard is taking up quite a lot of my day now!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on December 19, 2025, 08:37:35 AM
I have two Microsoft Ergonomic keyboards, one for my business PC and one for my personal PC. I love them, started using them in 1995 and they are the best for typing. I was recommending one to a friend a few years ago when I found out to my dismay that MSFT had discontinued production. So we looked them up on eBay and they were going for around $100-120. Worth it at twice the price, especially for a lightly-used or still in the box condition.

My keyboards have worn pads and faded lettering on the keys, but I love them and if someone modified "Highway Star" to be about the Microsoft Ergonomic Keyboard, I'd buy a copy for sure.

Nobody gonna take my keyboard
Gonna type it to the ground
Nobody gonna take my keyboard
Best ergonomic one around

Oooo-oooh it's a killer machine
It's got everything
Like an angled key bank
Raised up front and everything

I love it
I need it
I need it

Yeah it types real good
All right hold tight
I'm a typing staaaaaaar!


:smug:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 23, 2025, 08:40:32 AM
:haha2:

Indeed!

I am happy to announce that my new keyboard (which at the moment I do not need as a healthy dose of Contact Spray did the trick) arrived and it indeed is the almost the same models as my old one.

Pictured here:

(https://www.proshop.fi/Images/300x251/2865854_7cc4b24195ff.jpg)

So I am happy to stash that away until I need it!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on December 23, 2025, 10:21:20 AM
Love those sweet angles, yes!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on December 23, 2025, 10:44:39 AM
You people and your angles...
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 23, 2025, 11:12:05 AM
Gotta have 'em angles man!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: KiloDeltaCharlie on December 23, 2025, 11:27:03 AM
Never used one of those, although I am familiar with 'em. I think someone with RSI used one at work.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on December 23, 2025, 11:40:05 AM
I think I bought my first one in the early 2000s when they first came out...

I used to write a LOT back then so the layout got engraved in my head and once that happens there is no way you can ever write with a "normal" keyboard again. That's the problem I have with laptops...and why I don't use mine except for car diagnostic.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on January 21, 2026, 11:01:44 PM
There is a group called the Vervet Monkey Foundation, and they have a place in South Africa. As the name implies, they take in abandoned, injured, or otherwise "at-risk" vervet monkeys and rehabilitate them. Some are placed back in the wild, some are placed in one of the group's massive outdoor enclosures. They are a top-notch organization that really cares and more importantly, "knows their shit."

Recently, they were given a baby vervet monkey to care for. Explaining how the baby came to be without a mother, the person who found it (who just happened to be a veterinarian) was driving home and witnessed an adult female vervet monkey, with baby clinging to it, get hit by a car. The vet stopped and retrieved the baby (who had been tossed fifty feet away off to a ditch), noted that the person who hit the mother was scooping its obviously dead corpse into their vehicle, so decided to bring the baby to the Vervet Monkey Foundation.

When asked if he (the vet) had any idea why the person who hit the adult would put it's corpse in their vehicle, rather than move it off the road, or more realistically simply keep on driving, he indicated

WARNING: CULTURE CLASH INCOMING

He indicated that they were probably going to take it home and eat it. The people in the area of South Africa where this occurred consider vervet monkeys to be fine dining and won't pass up an opportunity to chow down on one. This seems, on the surface, to be high on the creep-o-meter! But, I've known people who have done the same thing with deer that they've hit and killed with their vehicles.

But, vervet monkeys have hands with opposable thumbs, share 93% of the same DNA with humans, are self-aware, clever, learn new things quickly, have a full range of nuanced feelings that they can emote, and have on occasion cared for baby humans for multiple years until the kids were found by other people.

Deer don't have any of that. So, eating a vervet monkey just doesn't sit well with me!

On the other hand - Macaques? - fuck macaques  :banana:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on January 22, 2026, 07:52:09 AM
This is why I tend to avoid "bush meat" when traveling. In addition to the "hey, that animal is a little too close for comfort" issue, there's also the, "ummm, I'm not going to get any species-jump disease nonsense if I eat this, am I?" factor to consider.

I used to work on a ranch, though, so I have zero issue with eating cows, if the meat's smoked properly.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on January 22, 2026, 12:44:13 PM

... there's also the, "ummm, I'm not going to get any species-jump disease nonsense if I eat this, am I?" factor to consider.


What, you don't want to be patient zero for an even more devastating variant of Ebola?
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on January 22, 2026, 01:46:06 PM

... there's also the, "ummm, I'm not going to get any species-jump disease nonsense if I eat this, am I?" factor to consider.


What, you don't want to be patient zero for an even more devastating variant of Ebola?

No. I do not.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on February 10, 2026, 04:57:19 PM
I've been gradually, but steadily, upgrading components to my stereo system. I've been using a Technics SU-R1000 integrated amplifier for a long time and have a Parasound JC5 stereo amplifier sitting around waiting to replace that Technics unit.

It's been waiting because I want to find an appropriate set of speakers first. My current pair are a bit puny for that JC5's output. I've tested them running together and although they all work together fine, I don't want to inadvertently blow out my drivers. Then along comes today...

The Technics unit had explosive diarrhea, fell back and rolled around in it. I cleaned things up and now just need to get the JC5 hooked in. Will probably do that tomorrow. In the meantime I'm investigating if I can fix the Technics (signs are positive in that regard) or if it will require a pro tech to handle. If the latter is the case, I'm not sure I'll do that. Might sell it as-is for dirt cheap, not sure yet.

Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on February 10, 2026, 05:34:16 PM
ooooh that's a kick in the head!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on February 11, 2026, 04:11:41 PM
Sorry to hear that bud!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on February 12, 2026, 07:48:11 AM
I've been gradually, but steadily, upgrading components to my stereo system. I've been using a Technics SU-R1000 integrated amplifier for a long time and have a Parasound JC5 stereo amplifier sitting around waiting to replace that Technics unit.
That Parasound is an impressive amplifier, Vyn.   :rockon:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on February 12, 2026, 05:09:45 PM
Thanks Typhon!                                             
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on June 16, 2026, 05:39:05 AM
.aaaand it happened again today...

And this time it wasn't just the F and the 5 it was also O and 0...


So opened the keyboard up again and cleaned it again this time with electronic contact spray...seems to be working now..

What is the sucky part is that these Ergonomic keyboards aren't available much anymore...the design has changed...and since I've been using one for over 15 years I can not type with a regular keyboard anymore...I did find a new model of the Microsoft Ergonomic keyboard but even that is bit different, but I did order one just in case...because cleaning my keyboard is taking up quite a lot of my day now!


AAAnd this happened again. And this time it did not wake up anymore...

So my new keyboard is in use now!

But hey I got almost 6 months more useage out of the old one by cleaning it...But sadly now it was time to give it a well deserved funeral.

Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 16, 2026, 07:04:18 AM
RIP Key Board. A life of service, well-lived!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on June 16, 2026, 08:48:48 AM

But hey I got almost 6 months more useage out of the old one by cleaning it...But sadly now it was time to give it a well deserved funeral.


Rock in Peace, good keyboard!

 :beerbang:  :death:  :rockon:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 17, 2026, 08:42:45 PM
OK

WELL

So, I go to this gal that cuts my hair about once a month or so. I went earlier today, and she had heard about my wife. Mentioned she was single and always dreamed of a good marriage. Cut my hair, I went on my way.

About two hours ago, I got a text message from her. Of course, they have my number, but only send out appointment notices. This one was from her. I was concerned that she was going to tell me she was quitting. It is damn hard to find a stylist I like and Ive had to jump around before so I wasn't looking forward to reading her text.

I read her text. She said, "Hey Vyn, just thought I'd let you know that when I mentioned I was single, I meant very single." And she included a live action picture of her in her dental-floss like intimate apparel. I would post it, but don't want to jack with her privacy and it's about as risque as one can get without being pornographic.

I replied with "DAMN, that's so hot I dropped my phone"

Which is almost the truth.

She replied with, "Good, then it worked. I have to go visit my parents, they live <somewhere> but I'll be back Sunday. I'll message you when I'm settled back in, and you can let me know what you think" With a smiley face.

GOOD LORD

In the looks dept. this woman is not even in the same solar system I'm in with my old gnarly looks. She's in her late 40s, and built like the proverbial brick shithouse.

I think someone made a song about her.

But, whereas I'm flattered, and frankly suspect she's just looking for someone with more than two dollars to their name more so than looking for "me", that just ain't happening. Not even as a fling. Not going to get involved in some kind of nonsense for an overnite and not interested in a relationship at this point. Which is basically what I'm going to tell her. But for one moment my confidence got a giant kick in the ass, and if that picture of her would have been a poster in 1977, no one would have had Farrah Fawcett on their walls.

Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: KiloDeltaCharlie on June 18, 2026, 05:27:58 AM
This soon after the passing of your wife, it seems a little insensitive. While you may want to get back out there, I can't imagine wanting to do that so soon!
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 18, 2026, 06:54:56 AM
Yeah, not interested. Maybe since I was capable of getting a haircut and behave in a normal manner she figured I was over the whole ordeal.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on June 18, 2026, 07:55:39 AM
She may be just lonely, and knowing you for some time, you being a customer and all, saw an opportunity and didn't want to let it slip by.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Charger on June 18, 2026, 10:47:38 AM
Vyn you stud you!  :love:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 18, 2026, 11:21:08 AM
Hahaha, I think I'd have to jump on her to qualify as stud. But since I'm running scared, a more appropriate term at this point would be, "pud" lol

@Typhon - could be, however, given our society's emphasis on looks - and she has a lot of that - I think she could walk down any given street and hook into a line of guys with no problem. I would entertain the idea that having lived her entire life with those looks, which no doubt presents its own set of unique challenges, she could be interested in someone that doesn't make decisions based on those looks. Facts are facts, and nobody, man or woman, would consider her as nothing less than stunning in the looks department, and I can recognize and appreciate those looks, but they don't mean anything to me as far as whether I would pursue a romantic relationship with her or not.

Sunday is a few days away, the clock ticks :)
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on June 18, 2026, 11:21:55 AM
Some people are bolder than others in exploring potential relationship partnerships, that's for sure. Flattering for sure, but that's all that it is.

I once had a discussion in which someone was openly contemplating having a relationship with a lady he knew only from seeing pictures and a bit of flirting. Best comment I heard on the matter was, "Hey, wake up! Until you really know her as a person, always assume that someone somewhere right now is sick and tired of dealing with her bullshit."

Be nice, be civil, be friendly... but until proven otherwise, someone somewhere right now is sick and tired of dealing with her bullshit. Discipline like that can keep you out of trouble.

As it so happened, that dude found out that, indeed, there were actually more than one or two someones sick of that attractive lady's bullshit. Pays to exercise caution. :smug:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: KiloDeltaCharlie on June 18, 2026, 11:27:46 AM
Is it going to make next months haircut a little "awkward"?
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 18, 2026, 11:34:13 AM
@Z - for sure!

@KDC - hahaha, thankfully I am capable of having a dicsussion with her that hits my goal while at the same time does not alienate the woman. I meant it when I said that finding a stylist I like is hard. I do not want to go that route. But, I refuse to be extorted emotionally just to get a good trim job ;)
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 18, 2026, 11:55:48 AM
Had to come back and say that while we were all typing these messages, I was listening to the radio. Not much paying attention, then I did and whaddaya know, "Somebody to Love" by ye ol' Jeff Aeroplane was playing.

WoohoOOooOOO
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Typhon on June 18, 2026, 12:34:56 PM
Well, if there is one subject that I have not figured out, it's women.   
But there is one thing I have learned from this discussion:  Vyn is not bald.  :smug:
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on June 18, 2026, 12:58:28 PM
Well, if there is one subject that I have not figured out, it's women.   
But there is one thing I have learned from this discussion:  Vyn is not bald.  :smug:

He had a pretty good head of hair in this video of him from the 70s:

Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 18, 2026, 01:20:28 PM
Ah yes, back in the days when I was actually a stud LOL
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on June 18, 2026, 05:30:26 PM
You bear a remarkable resemblance to Dan Ackroyd in that photo you use... :smug:

One could say, "Yes! Ah ha ha ha haaaaa! I like it!"

Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 18, 2026, 05:58:00 PM
What many people never realized is that Chevy Chase was not acting in that scene - it was a live shot of his white powdery chemical proclivities. :)
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Zzzptm on June 18, 2026, 07:20:11 PM
Fun fact: John Belushi once stole Chevy Chase's coke vial.
Title: Re: Abnormal Goings-on
Post by: Vyn on June 18, 2026, 07:21:54 PM
No wonder he's dead and Mr. Chase isn't. Things that make you go hmmmm...